Etiquette dating a divorcee
A true relationship involves everyone-family, friends & children.
He's keeping her separated from the rest of his life for a reason. Personally, a man without integrity is not even worth worrying about.
The hurt of being excluded is nothing to the hurt and anger she'll feel when HE dumps HER, and she remembers she should have known better than to be treated that way in the first place.
Nutt I know a person who has dated a man for a few years, but has never met his friends or his family and is constantly kept from meeting them.
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It would seem too me that within the first couple months she should have met some friends at least.
By the time a year rolled around she should have met the family, even the most important one.
get rid of that -- the sooner the better An important thing I did not mention, but thought it maybe would be understood when I titled it Divorce Etiquette is that this friend has been dating this divorced man for 3 years.I can tell you that I wouldn't date a guy for years, and not meet his friends or family.Two things come into mind, he's either wanted by the Mafia, or he's married.Definitely his family after a year and not be "excluded". The only thing she can do is decided if she is willing to be his bit on the side or be with someone else that is willing to included her into his life.Something is definately going on here if she has been with him that long and hasn't met anyone.(usually the last one you meet)Something is not right here if he is unwilling to let her meet people in his life IMO.I would suggest too her she have a talk with him and ask why he don't/wont let her meet the people in his life. If I were her, I wouldn't be sticking around to find out.Yes, she knows he is divorced and has seen his papers and he has his own residence, yet he continues to spend all the holidays with his ex-wife, grown children and his grandchildren. I will pass it along to my girlfriend in hopes that your feedback can ease her troubled soul. The fact that she is excluded from all events and meeting neither his friends or family, is the reason for most of the resentment and arguments because he continues to promise her that she will meet them and she believes him and she is continually let down. Something is fishy..my friend states that he continues to rationalize and make excuses for his behavior and she is just brokenhearted over it.She already saw his divorce papers and he has been divorced for about 3 years already, but can't seem to let his ex-wife go. My friend is excluded from everything, even his grandchildren I could understand being excluded from family stuff...do yourself a favor and help her out of something that is going to go no where.If I were dating a man and never introduced to his friends or family, I'd probably dump his butt.