Tips on dating a cop
It's like saying to her, "I really like you, except this one big part of you that happens to be paying the bills." Several officers have explained to me that this makes them feel completely unappreciated, as if what they do as female police officers doesn't count.
They feel that if they were men, they would be considered heroes for their chosen occupation, but as women they are just doing something to upset their partner. For me personally, I was a divorced mom when I became an officer. It felt like men were looking for a challenge or they wanted to be able to put an "X" in the box on their bucket list that reads, "Dated a Cop." Some of our challenges are obvious—we can't date criminals or our bosses, and sometimes these seem to be the only people around.
Also, traditionally it has been acceptable for younger women to date men who are considerably older; and by considerably I mean about 10 years older.
This means a woman in her Twenties has a wide selection of men to choose from for dating, but as she ages—regardless of her occupation—the pool of available men drops off sharply.
Because guest what, there is no such thing as "Prince Charming". My final thought is that if gonna date a woman, date a female cop for godsake; it will do you some good.
I've asked myself, are there special challenges for me because I'm an officer?Always put your safety first, even when you are really lonely. 1 1/2 years after this promotion you are still together, deeply love each other. Ive been to HR we do not have a fraternization policy. Feels like the bullseye is on him that even though the town attorney, manager etc have said off duty we can. Somedays, I just want to turn my stuff in and quit.If you wouldn't want your best friend to do it, you shouldn't either. However, my agency has only about 50 officers and the rumor mill has been so out of hand.. Im just struggling with everything and don't even know what to do anymore. Just so confused I think you summed it up pretty well.But it takes more than the Constitution to make us happy. and im underneath the bed scared to death cause hes got his glock on and your ninas under the pillow and im holding in my cigg smoke but idont know Fear..yea! They become different people, and the fact that they are in a male dominated profession makes any guy uncomfortable.The poets and seers of all the ages have tried to solve the riddle and discover to us the things that bring Happiness to the human heart. but on the other hand,looking back i recal most trouble with inmature women who wern't..but acted so, you know? lets look at it from a different point...i would love to do it with you babe without worrying about catching a d.v. Every relationship I've witnessed where the female is a LE employee has failed...usually due to unfaithfulness or a severe change in personality.I am in the Buena Park, California area should anyone like to comment. Dated two female cops in my short time as a cop myself... Second one was super nice and caring at the beginning but shortly turned into a super bitch.Women in law enforcement seem to have a chip on their shoulders...The most crowded Trail in all the world is that which is supposed to lead to Happiness.We all travel it whether we acknowledge the fact of not. were married (hypetheticly)Or may as well be you know?This is a result of men getting married and no longer dating, older men dating younger women, and the higher male mortality rate.So by the time a woman reaches her Forties, the pool of men for her to date is considerably smaller.